Here’s how to pin point your degree of affinity with yourself, your unique history, perspective, talents and skills and use this understanding to create a life of self-expression that you love…
Have you ever felt like you were looking on as a spectator at the places, interactions, situations and dynamics in your own life?
Or felt pangs of envy seeing others in their zone of genius, fully immersed in, shining and enjoying doing their unique thing?
This is a dynamic I notice a lot in my work where clients can feel almost as if it is difficult for them to be actively involved participants in the day to day experiences of their lives.
And very often, they feel this as a frustrating sort of distance between their inner reality, desires and thoughts and how exactly to share and act on them in real terms.
For example, many of my clients are big-hearted well travelled, educated, versed teacher/healer/creative types who have a wealth of goodness and life experience to share. They are however just learning that their life purpose and path are completely unique and can only come into being as they OWN their tremendous wisdom and worth, trust themselves, and allow their vision and gifts to be experienced and fully seen.
In both my personal and professional experience, being at the start of the journey of charting one’s unique life map can be one of the most scary, but empowering and exciting places to be.
Awakening to a grander vision of what is possible for your life represents nothing less than a point of departure…
A divergence from all the safe familial and societal ‘rules’ that on some level you have been realising you need freedom from in order that you can have a chance at the self-expression, freedom and happiness you NEED.
Your realisation that you are at this point of divergence begs the questions:
This is also the very place at which you are likely to feel the greatest resistance and fear because in effect, you are coming face to face with the fact that life is asking you to listen in very closely to and follow the beat of your own drum.
Your intuition or ‘drum’ is the single most powerful tool in your toolbox for consciously creating a beautiful life.
It beats in tandem with your deep inner knowing about who you are and what about your life’s story and skills make your perspective and future contributions essential and unique.
These are the foundations upon which your life map are built.
Recognising whether you have been being a spectator rather than a participant and active co-creator in your life, and the fear that comes up and diddles your ability to fully commit to fleshing out your life path are the first step.
The second step lies in recognising that you are at a very important juncture where the decision you make right now, will determine your future happiness and quality of life for many years to come.
This is the place where either folks decide to:
The danger in the latter of course is that once you turn your back on life’s bigger plan, you leave your place of power behind.
You end up cutting yourself off from the synchronicity and magical ‘flow’ of the beautiful life you have been dreaming of.
And you end up spending a lot of time and money at a suppressed level of happiness, functionality and being before you circle back to your place of power again.
If you have been poised at this place of divergence from the life your upbringing, education and work experience so far have carved out for you for some time, I have a few powerful clarifying questions for you.
Imagine for a moment that you can reach for and put on a pair of ‘reality’ specs…spectacles that allow you to see the truth of whatever situation your eyes land on.